Another Way Through: A Memoir of Chronic Illness and Choosing Life

DENVER, CO — November 10, 2026 —‍ ‍Lex Amore’s new book, Another Way Through: A Living-Systems Story of the Body, Protection, Love, and Choosing Life, is now available. Published on November 8, her thirty-seventh birthday, it is a true story told through a living valley: a landscape of creek and nerve, scar and weather, pelvis and stone, inhabited by a pack of animals who each carry a different age, alarm, or protective strategy that once helped one life keep going.

“Growth, where I can name it, has not meant becoming harder to hurt,” Amore writes. “It has meant becoming more responsive without becoming less tender.”

Another Way Through follows that shift through chronic pain, brain injury, endometriosis, surgery, infection, coercive relationships, caregiving, grief, and the repeated, unglamorous choice to remain. A bear who never needs an explanation for why you came. A fox who searches every shadow for a pattern that will finally keep everyone safe. A small lookout on the high rocks, lantern and whistle always in reach, built to make sure the valley never misses danger again, long after the danger has passed. None of them is the enemy. Each one kept a life going under conditions that have since changed, and adaptation, Amore suggests, is not the same thing as permanent usefulness.

“This is not a book about becoming calm, symptom-free, or permanently healed,” Amore says. “It’s a book about adapting without abandoning yourself. Sometimes another way through is medicine. Sometimes a boundary. Sometimes receiving help. Sometimes making the day smaller.”

The book has three parts. It opens with the valley itself, a story that can be read and left whole. It then moves beneath the valley, into the medical history, relationships, and spiritual questions the story grew from. It closes with a living-systems case study that carries those ideas into an unfinished recovery. Rather than asking how much more a body can endure, the book asks a different question: what conditions would let it participate here?

That recovery is still unfolding. Weeks before publication, new test results opened another door in Amore’s care, and she chose to publish anyway, letting the book’s final section, Results (So Far), end honestly unfinished. “The story isn’t over,” she writes. “But the story was never going to be over.”

“Injury stays injury in this book,” Amore says. “Medicine and surgery stay necessary exactly where they’re necessary. Nothing here becomes a metaphor at the body’s expense. But protection can be intelligent and still become disproportionate, and love can hold both gratitude and harm at the same time. I wanted a story honest enough to hold all of that at once.”

The book joins a wider conversation about medical gaslighting, the limits of willpower-based wellness, and what “resilience” means when conditions don’t support recovery. It offers a broader definition of the word, rooted in feedback, relationship, and the principles that let living systems reorganize after disturbance.

Another Way Through extends the work Amore began in The Resilient Living Systems Playbook and continued in Rooting & Rising: A Living-Systems Workbook for Moving Through Change. This time she turns that living-systems lens inward, as narrative rather than field guide, toward one specific, unfinished body: her own.

Book Details

Title: Another Way Through: A Living-Systems Story of the Body, Protection, Love, and Choosing Life
Author: Lex Amore
Release Date: November 8, 2026
Format: Paperback (Amazon); digital edition and audiobook at healwithamore.com, offered on a sliding scale
Pages: 342
ISBN: 9798160507552
Imprint: Independently published
Retail Price: $18.99

About the Author
Lex Amore
is a storyteller, regenerative strategist, and founder of Heal with Amore, where she integrates mindfulness, movement, and nature into pathways of personal and systemic healing. She holds a Master of Science in Biomimicry from Arizona State University and has collaborated with hundreds of biomimicry groups and practitioners worldwide, sharing this practice across diverse settings—from youth programs and university classrooms to corporate boardrooms. Her work illuminates the interconnections between body, culture, and ecology. Through her writing and coaching, Lex invites people to remember their belonging in the living world—through breath, embodiment, and relationship.

For Review Copies, Interviews, or Media Inquiries: Please contact Lex Amore at lex@healwithamore.com or visit www.healwithamore.com/contact. 

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